Brene' Brown has a netflix special. If you have not read any of her books yet, this is a great primer.
Here are other important lessons about vulnerability from the special.
Despite what some may think, Brown said, "Vulnerability is our most accurate way to measure courage, and we literally do that as researchers."
Vulnerability allows them to assess fearlessness, said Brown.
"We can measure how brave you are by how vulnerable you're willing to be."
Brown asserts vulnerability is the "birthplace" of things like love and joy.
Highlighting the risks of love, Brown polled the audience: "Are you 100% sure that person will always love you back, will never leave, will never get sick? How many of you have every buried someone you love? How many of you have lost someone you love?
"To love is to be vulnerable, to give someone your heart and say, 'I know this could hurt so bad, but I'm willing to do it; I'm willing to be vulnerable and love you,' " she added.
Of joy, Brown said, "When we lose our capacity for vulnerability, joy becomes foreboding. It becomes scary to let ourselves feel it."
Vulnerability was Brown's recommendation for a company with a "huge creativity and innovation problem" that wanted to hire her to speak.
"No vulnerability, no creativity. No tolerance for failure, no innovation. It is that simple," she advised. "If you're not willing to fail, you can't innovate. If you're not willing to build a vulnerable culture, you can't create."
Brown said even those who think they are avoiding being vulnerable are in fact experiencing the emotion. "You do vulnerability knowingly or vulnerability does you," she said.
She explained the importance of openness. "It is so much easier to cause pain than feel pain, and people are taking their pain and they're working it out on other people," she said, "and when you don't acknowledge your vulnerability, you work your (expletive) out on other people. Stop working your (expletive) out on other people."
"Vulnerability is hard, and it's scary, and it feels dangerous, but it's not as hard, scary or dangerous as getting to the end of our lives and having to ask ourselves, 'What if I would've shown up?' 'What if I would've said, I love you?' " Brown told the crowd. "Show up, be seen, answer the call to courage... 'cause you're worth it. You're worth being brave."
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